Sometimes it becomes very important to think that is it really important for us to live and to marry those people who are best match for us. At some point of time we learn that it is not only important to live with those who are having similar thinkings and attitudes but it can also make your life worth living.
It would not be a wrong if we say that there are so many kinds of people on the planet. The topic becomes so complex when it comes to judge people and to decide who is right and wrong for one to get married and live life.
It depends on time when it comes to learn about life and priorities. Life changes every second and we are the one to decide which way we want to take.Two people who are supposed to live together for their whole life, have children and pursue their goals, have another situation which is faced by them especially women.
When it comes to a married life, it is very important for both of the partners to understand each other and let them peruse their interests instead of telling that your duty is just to keep the home clean and to cook food for me (There should not be any doubt that which partner has been pointed out here).
The concept of the article is that if you cannot do something, why do you want to stop your wife? The biggest problem is that most of the men think that their wife’s duty is to cook food, clean their homes and look after their children and that’s it.
A married woman in Pakistan, who is from a middle class family, or in other words who has been married in a middle class family gets exploit. No matter what is her education and what is she capable of doing, she has to give birth to child every second year, no one praises her, she can’t have separate house and so many other absurd things are in her box of life. Whereas when it comes to the husband and their family they say IT IS ISLAM.
Things such as, limited education, no job, no permission to drive, no permission to talk and take decisions, as a whole NO FREEDOM for women in Pakistan. Hijab is just for women, Islam is just for women, and every other restriction is just for women. They are not allowed to have mobile phones, the are not allowed to watch TV channels of their own choice, they are not able to dress what they want, they are not allowed to go out and buy things they want. On the other hand if a girl is permitted to pursue her goals, still she has to face problems
The most important message is to realise that women are humans as well. The most important message is to realise that women are humans as well. Parents in middle class families should treat their daughters nicely because one day they are going to marry her with an HYPOCRITE .